The pillow on my wife's side of the bed,
still has the imprint where she lay her head.
I just can't bring myself to disturb it,
If anyone does, I will have a fit.
So some of you may think I am crazy.
But others will think I am just lazy.
This house is loaded with the things she made.
A lot of those things she sat and crocheted.
So for now, will leave things the way they are.
Though some of you may think that is bizarre.
But this is my home so don't you forget,
I'll do things my way so don't you dare fret.
Things will never be the same here at home,
So we will jump in the RV and roam.
The two dogs and I will take a long trip.
Will stay on earth cause don't have a spaceship.
Want to visit relatives and old friends,
At least one last time before my life ends.
Congratulations on a very well done blog entry.
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Thanks Barney
DeleteI know the feeling about not changing things after your wife passes. Two years after Arlene passed I was starting to date Kathy and I still had her voice on the Answering Machine. That's when I knew it was time to say good-bye.
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It's about time.
It is going to take me a long time, but it isn't fair to my other loved ones for me to be so depressed. I am not sure if it will ever get easier to live with but I will have lots of practice trying to be normal.
DeleteI hope everyone in your life accepts and respects your wishes to keep reminders of your dear wife in your home. She was so talented and it's great you have things she created in your home.
ReplyDeleteFor now, nothing is going to change. Maybe later. She made a lot of things that she wanted to sell at the flea market, so I may sell them for her, but not now.
DeleteSuch a beautiful post DD, your right to leave things the way they are if it's what you want. There your memories of a wonderful wife and life.
ReplyDeleteI will change nothing at this time. This is not the time to make decisions.
DeleteThat was a very nice post.
ReplyDeleteThanks Rob, it just sort of poured out of me.
DeleteGreat post. Leave things the way you like them and don't let anyone rush you into changing them Each person grieves in their own way. You will know when the time is right. Merry Christmas!
ReplyDeleteI will not live long enough to get to that "time is right" place. At least that is the way I feel now. If I didn't have my family, friends, and dogs, I know I would not get through it.
DeleteBeautiful poem Uncle Dick and Aunt Ruth is surely smiling. Please let us know if you're up in Pennsylvania. It would be nice to meet you for coffee or tea
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ReplyDeleteA heartfelt post Dizzy and I can only wish the best for you. I hope you can make it through all the difficulties and come out the other side a stronger person. As I said before I have never lost anyone that close to me so it's hard for me to give you any practical advice but I think the other commenters are right about not making any major decisions for now.
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ReplyDeleteWhen I come to the end of the road
And the sun has set for me
I want no rites in a gloom-filled room
Why cry for a soul set free?
Miss me a little-but not too long
And not with your head bowed low
Remember the love that we once shared
Miss me-but let me go
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And each must go alone.
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Miss me but let me go.
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Oh wow!!! That brought tears to my eyes, but it is oh so true.
DeleteI am so sorry you are grieving there is no time table to follow because everyone is different...don't let anyone tell you otherwise.
ReplyDeleteLike you mention it is your home and only you can decide what to do with it and its contents.
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